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Dating advice of the day:
Maybe that’s what you need Aubray, a dog. Most guys like dogs.
If you’re out there and you’re single, just know this season can be beautiful if you walk in the fullness of it. You don’t need another human to validate you, affirm you, or complete you. You’ll always end up short if you do. You are a whole person. We’re not half people walking around.
If you’re married, be quick to listen and slow to speak. Being a Party of 1 can be beautiful, but it can be hard to see that when you’re constantly saying singles need something in order to be prepared for a season we so deeply desire.
This season has purpose. That’s beautiful. This season can be hard. That’s also beautiful. Neither negates the fact that this is a desire. It’s ok to desire marriage. It’s great. It’s human. God knows your desires. Don’t stop, shut off, or downplay your desires and definitely don’t listen to the people that think you should.
My ultimate advice is keep desiring deeply, but don’t put life on hold or live in the future of those desires. Live now. Live present. Pursuit isn’t always a chasing down. Sometimes it’s patiently waiting on the promise. Waiting isn’t a push pause, sometimes it’s hit play until the other part of the song comes or a new chord is strummed.